Done and dusted
  Goodbye letter expressing gratitude and blessing           their relationship handwritten, signed, sealed delivered by           hand and on foot. Said brief goodbye in person at the doorstep           - called bye to new partner as I left, he said bye too.           Walking to the cafe to write it and to Sonia's to deliver it           then home by 9am, has done me the world of good. Intend to           feel proud of having done the honorable thing in the end. Crichton          and Nussbaum  both incredibly right. Crichton deserves wider           audience. One point from the Crichton quote that I missed in my last post: true pride, too, is a teacher of sociable love.